Written by: Asher's Mommy
We ran through over 20 theme ideas (even sketching several of them out) before
settling on the idea of hot air balloons. This party meant a lot to
us. We just wanted everything to be perfect...



Just to give a little background, Ascher arrived 3.5 weeks before he was due -
just at the cusp of him getting classified as a preemie (which meant having to
get admitted into the NICU). Thank GOD. He was tiny - 6 lbs 1 oz,
and 19 inches long. But he was "perfect" as declared by the
pediatrician after the various newborn examinations. I am NOT an
emotional person but both Seung Yun and I were completely & totally
overwhelmed by emotion and tear at the first glimpse of him.
Nonetheless, the first months were tough. It's hard enough trying to
adjust to the new baby, and to feed & change him round the clock (hard to
believe/explain that feeding, changing, putting to sleep a baby every 2-4 hour
cycle literally takes up all of your time)... But on the 5th day, the
lactation consultant at the hospital told us to go over to the pediatrics
department as he looked yellow and she suspected jaundice. This was the
beginning of a very arduous few weeks.


By the following Tuesday (about
1/2 week later), we would have made a trip to the pediatrics department FIVE
times.
And on that Tuesday, the doctor decided to get Ascher admitted to the PICU
(Pediatric Intensive Care Unit) for phototherapy not because his bilirubin
level was super high but because he wasn't getting better fast enough (mind
you, I had inquired about phototherapy a few days before because I thought it'd
be nice to just nip the jaundice in the bud, and at the time, the doc didn't
think it was necessary, again, because his bili level wasn't high enough).
We barely got any shut-eye while at the hospital (maybe 2-3 hrs during the 2
days that we were there) because Ascher's eye-protector head wrap thing kept
slipping off (talk about poor design & terrible fit!) and the last thing we
wanted was to ruin his retina on top of everything.


Fortunately, we got
discharged on Xmas Eve, and didn't have to actually spend Xmas at the
hospital. From there, I stopped counting but there were a few more
follow-up visits for jaundice and also for his weight gain (not only did Ascher
have jaundice, but he wasn't quite gaining weight fast enough in the earlier
weeks). But I'm happy to report, that, by his 1-month check-up, he had
started to gain weight very well and the doctor declared that there be no more
need for jaundice check-ups (*whew!*).
Ascher has been an absolute treasure, a complete blessing, and pure joy to have
in our lives. As much as the first days, weeks, months overflowed with
anxiety & worry, Ascher has continued to grow & develop so well &
wonderfully. He accorded us so much worry & scare with the jaundice
hospitalization but he's been a such a good son ("hyo ja") and hasn't been sick
since (not even a little cold)!


The 1st birthday is a big deal as it is in Korean tradition, but we especially
wanted to take the opportunity to commemorate the incredible journey.
Party needed to be perfect - it was such a momentous occasion afterall - but
without breaking the bank. We wanted our guests to come and celebrate
Ascher with us, and enjoy themselves all the while partaking in a bit of Korean
tradition.
Every aspect of the party has been thought through. Since it's a Korean
birthday celebration and we had quite a few non-Korean guests, we wanted to
have Korean food served to our guests. Seung Yun and I are a bit of
foodies so we didn't want to settle for mediocre Korean food, and Yong Su San
is known for their good food. This was the same reasoning behind choosing
the dduk jip that we did - San Soo Dang probably has the best dduk in Los
Angeles - and the birthday cake. :) I really wrestled with the idea of
doing my own decorations & table set-ups, but working full-time didn't
allow me much time once I was home without sacrificing time spent with my
son. So after having interviewed several balloon vendors, we went with
the one who provided the best quote but also the one who understood my vision
for the party the most.


We designed and produced all of our stationaries
ourselves - the invitation, guest notecards, and the thank you card. The
color palette was inspired by what was available at Paper Source. ;)
Ascher being a boy, I definitely wanted it to be obvious that the party was
that of a boy. So blue. I picked different hues of blue to
communicate a certain lightness (it was a kid's party after all) that wasn't
too childish and also a level of elegance & sophistication. Then I
chose a orangish-red ("papaya") as an accent color. Our balloon
decorator took my invitation and based the design (almost exactly) and colors
for the background banner to hang behind the main dol table.

When we chose hot air balloons as our party theme, what we envisioned is that
the table centerpieces show at different heights to simulate a group of hot air
balloons rising into the air. Hot air balloons rising up as our hopes and
aspirations for Ascher. :) Just as he fought off and rose above his
illness in the early days (I realize that jaundice is common amongst the Asian
babies, but the incidence had us really freaked out).

We wanted our guests to have fun and actually understand what was going on - so
I designed a flyer to leave at each table explaining the traditional
celebration and what various aspects and items meant. I decorated the
flyer with the same hot air balloon images as the guest note cards. I (with
help from my best friend Grace!) also painstakingly made close to 100 mini
paper-flowers that we tied around each cloth napkin as napkin holders. I
slipped in the day's menu on top of each napkin just below the flower. I
picked out a representative picture from each month of Ascher's life to use as
the table # sign (i.e. 1st month as table #1, etc). For our little
guests, I put together a personalized goodie bag of coloring booklet, crayons,
stickers, and age-approriate snacks & book. I printed out the same hot
air balloon images in various colors & design to use as name tags to tie to
the goodie bags.

One of the highlight of the day was the slideshow put together by Seung
Yun. It was less than
10 minutes, but
it was such a fabulous way to showcase more pictures from his 1st year (other
than the ones that were already peppered throughout the room), and that of our
family. It was touching even for us to watch it but for our guests as
well. Seung Yun put in many late nights working on this movie to bring
together his vision and to tell a story, and even mixed in a few of the
countless short video clips that we have of our little boy just perfectly along
with the various songs that we carefully hand-picked. He had really put
his personal touch on it and with his sense of humor that shone through the
slideshow, it made our guests (and us!) laugh and cry.
It rained on the day-of and many things did not go as planned. Despite it
all (and my being very harried in the beginning), the party was a hit and our
guests repeatedly told me how great everything was for a few weeks
afterwards. Yay! And that's how we closed the chapter on the 1st year of Ascher's life. It
really went by in a flash, but so much has happened in that time
nonetheless. Ascher's every single little moments will always be
treasured.

:: Credits ::
- Photography:
connie M chung Photography (ever so wonderful & talented!)
www.connieMchung.com
- Event by Ascher's Mom Production
- Invitation & guest cards designed & printed by Ascher's Mom
- Slideshow: Ascher's Dad
- Venue: Yong Su San 950 S. Vermont Ave., LA 90006 (213)388-3042
- Decorations & balloons: Ruru Party - [email protected]
- Dduk: San Soo Dang 761 S. Vermont Ave., LA 90005 (213)487-1717
- Cake: Triple Berry Shortcake from Sweet Lady Jane Bakery www.sweetladyjane.com
- Hair/makeup: Etude Lounge www.elbeauty.com